When a person (MALE/FEMALE) are using stimulation on their private parts to achieve orgasm.

These stimulations can be self-induced or artificial or electronic toys, for both male & female. This practice is usually done when a person is alone to find a release of certain hormones which make them feel relaxed as well as to release certain tension.

 

Male are using this practice more regularly then females, as the hormones play a vital role in creating the urge.

We start using this practice by the age of 14-16 as our secondary sexual characters starts developing and our gonads starts responding in a particular way.

 

Let’s be honest, all of us do masterbate regularly but due to the TABOO in our society we are shy to speak up.

 

• Yes, it is good if u masterbate once or twice a week for your relief, reducing stress & it is also a valid systemic response that all your hormones are working in precise manner.

• Bad, if you are getting addicted to it, this means the frequency is daily or even bad twice a week. In some cases, it is found that some people Masterbate just to sleep, this is an extreme case & some uses it to keep themselves focus to their work so that they do not get distracted by the people around them. These are the cases where masturbation is bad for the individual (MALE & FEMALE).

 

Yes, definitely, we as an Indian society with the dense population of 1.4+ billions and rising as we read this article, are reproducing on daily basis, then why not discuss about our sexual practice & educate our children as well as people around me.

 

This definitely does not mean that one should start talking about this to anyone, anywhere. There are social boundaries that we need to address and ease the conversation.

Most important thing is to make our youth understand about its functioning and to keeping it private.

 

There are various people, so called GURUS who also say such myths on the daily basis to increase their followers on social media

All of these are MYTHS running in & out in our society. Please do not follow them nor promote them. If you are not a doctor or a sexologist, your knowledge is half which can or cannot be accurate in certain cases.

 

If you are addicted to masturbation then it will definitely cause you some adverse effects. It is usually not found in the younger age, but as we age our receptors starts getting old and effects our sexual performance.

 

For example – if one masterbates regularly watching porn day in & day out, or even on daily basis, they start having unrealistic fantasies which are probably never going to happen.

What this exactly does?

Now your stimulation is on unrealistic approach, where your partner is having great body, better secondary sexual character, size of genitals is extra ordinary, all of these things excites you, but in reality you are not going to have such partner this will in turn reduce your interest in the real people around you or with your life partner as well.

 

This is how it effects when you get addicted to it

 

IF YOU ARE THE ONE WHO DOES IT ONCE A WEEK OR TWICE, THEN U DON’T NEED TO WORRY ABOUT ANY OF THESE THINGS.

IF YOU ARE THE ONE WHO DOES IT ON DAILY BASIS OR EVEN TWICE A DAY, MY FRIEND IT IS TIME TO MEET YOUR CONSULTANT AND GET RIGHT GUIDANCE REGARDING THE SAME.

 

Yes, you can if you are not dependent on it. Once a week or twice a week is a sweet spot.

Also understand if you are married this situation and suggestion changes, with your age it changes, with certain diseases it changes. So the answer varies from person to person, according to their age, martial station, relationship status, disease & in certain cases.